Dating in 1950
Introducing your date to your parents on a first date When a man collected his young lady, it was customary for her to introduce him to her parents who would want to approve that he was suitable for their daughter.Introducing your date to family and friends means it’s serious For many modern day daters, busy with work, life and possibly kids, introducing a partner to parents or family is more likely to happen once the dating phase is close or into the ‘relationship’ phase.Timing was everything Notice was absolutely necessary for a date in polite society.At least two or three days’ notice was required for a lady’s diary and times to collect and return your young lady were critical.Competing for time Modern daters are busy with their lives, and if they’re not around when the phone rings, it is acceptable to call back when convenient or to arrange a second date through a text or email.Respond immediately to your date invitation If a lady was lucky enough to be asked out, it was her duty to respond immediately and of course with absolute politeness.To celebrate this Diamond Jubilee, relationship site e Harmony reviews how young couples met and dated sixty years ago and compares the advice given then, to our contemporary words of wisdom. Men frequently ask Whilst it’s still traditional for a man to ask, today women can and often do ask men on dates.
Always be on time There’s no such thing as fashionably late; ladies must be ready when their date arrived.Men always ordered When dining out, the young lady should always tell her male friend what she would like before he orders for her.I know what I want Today, it is unheard of to expect your date to order for you. Men always paid When the bill arrived, the man would always pay. The payment dilemma Many men still feel that they should pick up the bill, but paying is a tricky issue.Meeting in public is a good idea Unlike the traditional custom of collecting and being collected, today it is more common to make your own way to the first date and is sensible to meet in a public place.This takes away any fear and ensures safety until you get to know your date a little more.