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I honestly found this extremely tough and had to check my jealousy at the door.
There were constant reminders of her, not only in the kids themselves but in memories, photos, and so on.
I remember fairly early in our relationship, we were at dinner and out of nowhere his demeanor completely changed from happy to sad.
He told me that he missed going out to dinner as a family.
Finding someone special is rare enough, but when you reach a certain age, there’s a good chance that the person you find may be a package deal. We couldn’t make spontaneous plans and things would often get interrupted.
I found myself in this exact scenario: I met an amazing guy that I fell for fast and during one of those “getting to know each other” moments, I learned he had kids. I knew he was worth it so I adapted quickly but I had to remember that I would never be number one. New relationships go through the phase where you want to spend every waking second with each other.
This helped me to focus on keeping our relationship strong. Overall, I knew that I had to be a person that meant a hell of a lot to my boyfriend.
Since he had two little people that depended on him, he wasn’t going to go bringing just anyone into that dynamic.
It’ll take some time to meet them but when you do, be interested.
The kids had to deal with their parents splitting up, which can be hard, so I knew that meeting them wasn’t going to come right away.