Jewish dating ideas
The theme repeated everywhere in novels and movies is that “I am in love and my love is beyond my control”; “I fell in love”; it was as though someone pushed me off a cliff and it was all accidental and unintentional.The Jewish approach warns us not to “love in spite of yourself”, but to love “because of yourself”. Enter into the love relationship with your eyes open, not with your eyes closed. Jewish food is delicious when done right and, again, by "right" I mean exactly the way it was prepared for me each holiday growing up. It's a result of years of killing it on the bar mitzvah, camp, and college circuits. Worried about your potentially awkward upcoming work dinner? Though you may be astounded by how many ways things that happened this year can be related back to the summer of 2007, remember my fondness for camp is rooted in my unbreakable fondness for tradition and my love of all things family. …And your trip to Israel was probably great too but it wasn't as great as her Birthright trip. Consider this your friendly reminder to not call people things if you don't really know what they mean. If you can't handle me at my mild mishegas, you don't deserve me at my best kvelling …
Fall in love only after you have come to know yourself, not because you feel insecure and think “no one loves me”, and not because you don’t get along with your parents and are anxious to leave home.
Don’t let your craving for acceptance or love lead you to throw yourself at the first person who gives you a tumble or is “pliable” in physical conduct.
All this is a matter of decency, honesty and fairness to yourself, to the other person involved, and to your family and Jewish tradition.
Since we're focusing on dating, here are a few quick ideas on where you might go with that special guy or gal of yours. Volunteering Okay, let's start by taking our medicine.
Just kidding volunteering can be fun and rewarding! Sign up to be a guide or whatever else suits you, and bring a friend or your loved one to make these rewarding times pass that much better.